Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Is being gay all about having sex with other men?



Being gay, feels as if either i m sick or i m not part of society. I know its not true. Time is changing. 

Here in India also, people have started understanding about being gay. Do you know, Gay behaviour is because of some genes in our body.  But still, i am being seen, as if I am gay because i am a sexual pervert.
You know why, because most of the time, being gay is equivalent to having sex with other men. Being gay is for sure about sexuality. But its not about sex only. Its a lifestyle. Its a complete life.

Even on dating sites, specially in India, most of the people are just looking for sex. Yes gay sex is easily available, and is cheap also. Though there are many gay escorts are available as well. Still people love to enjoy gay sex. Because it doesn't have any complications. But they don't understand. They themselves are making life complex. Somewhere, in our psyche.. we are equating gay as having random sex with other men, which is actually not true.

I would really like to know more about the opinions of other gay people. 

4 comments:

  1. Actually ya its more like da firSt thing that strikes up for gay is sex...drugs or femininity
    which is absolutely wrong nt fo others buh for da people in da commuinty itself
    inorder to gain respect or equality why nt kill da evils among da community itself

    gay pride walks up wit slogans of
    "our love our choice"
    where is da love...??

    I would stanD up buh at da enD of Day fo what just lust oriented people
    betta jot
    "our lust our choice"
    ova chart papers coz dats da appropriate slogan fo it

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    1. Hi Karan,

      yes you are so right in saying that where is the love. Its our community only, which has to save ourselves. We need to become little more mature and understand that its not about sex only. though yes sex is an important part.

      But more important is love of another guy in our life. i personally feel complete, when i get the guy of my life. who will love me.

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    2. We are generally left wit who will love mee
      people no matter what da issue turn to sex
      who dnt finD love turn to sex
      who r frustrated turn to sex
      insecurities turn to sex
      I ws talking to a frnd he told me
      "I was taken to a gay party where i was calleD a small town boy when i refused da concept of one night".
      Da myths are so powerfull that it takeS ova da reality

      Personally my dream of wanna b loveD is always left "wanna b"

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