Is being gay all about having sex with other men?

Being gay, feels as if either i m sick or i m not part of society. I know its not true. Time is changing. 

Here in India also, people have started understanding about being gay. Do you know, Gay behaviour is because of some genes in our body.  But still, i am being seen, as if I am gay because i am a sexual pervert.
You know why, because most of the time, being gay is equivalent to having sex with other men. Being gay is for sure about sexuality. But its not about sex only. Its a lifestyle. Its a complete life.

Even on dating sites, specially in India, most of the people are just looking for sex. Yes gay sex is easily available, and is cheap also. Though there are many gay escorts are available as well. Still people love to enjoy gay sex. Because it doesn't have any complications. But they don't understand. They themselves are making life complex. Somewhere, in our psyche.. we are equating gay as having random sex with other men, which is actually not true.

I would really like to know more about the opinions of other gay people. 

know more about Yug - the owner of this blog

m still not coming out of closet, but am very close

I was thinking of interviewing gay guys  for this blog, and then thought let me start with myself only. With the below interview of myself, you all will understand more about me and will feel comfortable about this blog as well.

Q: How would you like to define yourself?

A: I am Yug,  a closet gay guy, living in new delhi, India,  with high hopes and high ambitions but also with several limitations. 

Q:Are you a gay activist.

A: No, not as on date. But yes some day perhaps. Gay community in India is still very young, i feel that the gay culture here is restricted to gay sex only. I would like to work towards upliftment of gay community in India, specially New Delhi. 

Q:Why this blog?

A: Most of the gay sites are either dating sites or porn sites. There are few websites, which talk about gay lifestyles. And frankly speaking none in India. This blog is all about gay life in India. It is all about providing  information to gay people with gay flavor. 

Q:Is there any personal agenda behind this blog, like meeting new people. 

A: Meeting new people, yes is there in the agenda. But not for sex. As i already stated, this blog is all about providing information, and in this regards i would definitely like to meet more people.

Q:Why you want to provide this information platform?
A: A lot of  people feel that being gay is all about dating and having sex. Specially in India, where the community is opening up gradually. I want to set the perspective right, by informing gay people as well as gay friendly people that being gay not only means having sex. Being gay is a lifestyle. Its about sexual preference, but also about the way gay people wanna live life. 

Q:Lets talk about your greatest weakness?

A: I am moody. Yes i am big time moody. Not because i love to be like this. But I get myself checked and i am suffering from Bipolar Disorder. Which means that my moods swing between high and lows. And i think there are many other gay guys who also suffer from this. The only problem is we think of this as being moody, whereas this is nothing but a genetic problem.

Q:Have you suffered because of this weakness.

A: Yes, I have lost many friends because of this weakness. There are many people, who have thought that i am very moody, proudy and don't want to keep in touch. Whereas i am very people friendly and love to keep in touch with people. 

Q:What are the strong points of your personality.

A: I am ambitious,  people oriented and I am creative.

Q:What is one thing in life that you miss.

A: I am still single, without a partner and that what i miss most. 

Q:Would you like to take commercial advantage of this blog. 

A: I am not sure, as of now. Has not planned that yet. But if i get commercial advantage from this blog, I don't see it  wrong. 

These are only few questions. If you have any more questions for myself. Please feel free to write in comments.