m still not coming out of closet, but am very close |
I was thinking of interviewing gay guys for this blog, and then thought let me start with myself only. With the below interview of myself, you all will understand more about me and will feel comfortable about this blog as well.
Q: How would you like to define yourself?
A: I am Yug, a closet gay guy, living in new delhi, India, with high hopes and high ambitions but also with several limitations.
Q:Are you a gay activist.
A: No, not as on date. But yes some day perhaps. Gay community in India is still very young, i feel that the gay culture here is restricted to gay sex only. I would like to work towards upliftment of gay community in India, specially New Delhi.
Q:Why this blog?
A: Most of the gay sites are either dating sites or porn sites. There are few websites, which talk about gay lifestyles. And frankly speaking none in India. This blog is all about gay life in India. It is all about providing information to gay people with gay flavor.
Q:Is there any personal agenda behind this blog, like meeting new people.
A: Meeting new people, yes is there in the agenda. But not for sex. As i already stated, this blog is all about providing information, and in this regards i would definitely like to meet more people.
A: A lot of people feel that being gay is all about dating and having sex. Specially in India, where the community is opening up gradually. I want to set the perspective right, by informing gay people as well as gay friendly people that being gay not only means having sex. Being gay is a lifestyle. Its about sexual preference, but also about the way gay people wanna live life.
Q:Lets talk about your greatest weakness?
A: I am moody. Yes i am big time moody. Not because i love to be like this. But I get myself checked and i am suffering from Bipolar Disorder. Which means that my moods swing between high and lows. And i think there are many other gay guys who also suffer from this. The only problem is we think of this as being moody, whereas this is nothing but a genetic problem.
Q:Have you suffered because of this weakness.
A: Yes, I have lost many friends because of this weakness. There are many people, who have thought that i am very moody, proudy and don't want to keep in touch. Whereas i am very people friendly and love to keep in touch with people.
Q:What are the strong points of your personality.
A: I am ambitious, people oriented and I am creative.
Q:What is one thing in life that you miss.
A: I am still single, without a partner and that what i miss most.
Q:Would you like to take commercial advantage of this blog.
A: I am not sure, as of now. Has not planned that yet. But if i get commercial advantage from this blog, I don't see it wrong.
These are only few questions. If you have any more questions for myself. Please feel free to write in comments.
One thing Yug did not say is that he is very
ReplyDeletemoody - he may talk to you daily, he may just throw you in wasterpaper basket. That is why he is single so far....tried many partners as is evident from his blog but did not stick.
hey sahir,
Deletei have been quite upfront , and declared mood swings as my weakness. i also accepted, that i have lost few good friends because of this issue.
hey i never throw people as waste paper. yes! i may stop talking and shut myself from all. but i don't disgrace other people.
About me being single. yes, there are various issues because of which i have been single till date... i dont even know, if i will ever meet my soulmate.. or i will always remain single.